I have one friend who is beautiful, smart, friendly, talented, and she had a boyfriend. How lucky she is. But one day, I saw her with another guy who was more handsome than her boyfriend. Her boyfriend asked me did she hang out with another guy and I said the truth. And finally they broke up. After that, she had another boyfriend. And she also cheated. Her boyfriend saw him in a café with another guy and he was very angry. But after that, she had another boyfriend. And it happens repeatedly.
I have another friend who also did the same thing. She had a great boyfriend. He had responsibility. They always go somewhere together, eat together, and did many kinds of thing together. One day, my friend met her ex-boyfriend and had lunch together. And finally, they often send a text each other. In the end, she left her boyfriend.
My mother also did it. My father have to go to Thailand for over 3 months because his work, and because of that my mother feels lonely. She had a friend on Facebook and had a chatting with him. And one day I saw my mother was calling her Facebook friend. After my father went home, my father realized that my mother was cheating with her friend on Facebook. And finally, they had verbal dispute.
Most of infidelity happens because they grateful less to their situation with their partner or their relationship. Anyone who does not have grateful to God, they will expect for get more things and even more. Because of that, they cannot stop to looking for another guy.
Feeling bored also can cause an infidelity. People who cheat because they were bored, later they will cheat again with another guy because they were feeling bored with their old affair. Or they would regret and want to reconcile with her old partner. And they realized that their partner were better than their affair. The point is we must not cheat because it just spent our time and we might leave a great partner because we expect a perfect partner who has never been in a real life.
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